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TomB:
I know what arhar is getting at though, and while I think you do try to see all sides I think there's some deep seeded resentment you still feel, not only towards the Israelis but also toward the US for causing your family's flight from Iraq.
Ah, do I have to say it again?
Of course I still feel some "resentment," it's very natural. However, coming to the United States is one of the best things that could have happened to me. Period. I can't ever regret it. What...if I just can see what I'm doing here versus what I would be doing in Iraq, I would completely cry! I can't even *live* in Iraq any more, since I've seen all the wonderful things the United States offer here. Example, I'm into music. It would be my last dream to obtain all the musical technology I obtained here in Iraq...I probably can, but...it wouldn't be as easy as...go to Best Buy or Amazon.Com and order whatever you wish. That's why I plan to live here for a long time, or at least in Canada. I love the United States...
...but again...I can't side with it on every issue. My willing to discuss the issue alone should show you that I'm a good citizen, simply because I have something to say. Hey, there are people out there that don't even vote...that practically have no saying, no opinion at all. I should at least get some respect for willing to share my opinion...
Even more, suppose you did not know I'm from Iraq, you wouldn't be saying any of the things you're saying right now...you'd just pretend that I'm an American who likes to discuss things. That's all; you'd percieve me like you percieve Spiderman, in which he argues not in any side, but on the "right side," whatever that maybe. Since you know I'm not a local American, you can use it to justify my behaviour or use it against me by saying things like:
I know what arhar is getting at though, and while I think you do try to see all sides I think there's some deep seeded resentment you still feel, not only towards the Israelis but also toward the US for causing your family's flight from Iraq
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Arhar:
And I wouldn't even go into "why would I hate Israel deal", for obvious reasons.
The simple fact is, if I had anything against any country, I would admit it. I can see why you think I somewhat dislike the United States, but the truth is completely the opposite -- that's because I'm discussing the American government, and frankly, I don't value the American government, nor any other government in this case. About the Israelis, like I said, I don't know them, I don't know their country, or their government, so I have no reason to hate them, and I really cannot see why you might think I hate them.
Question: do you think I dislike all the countries/people I'm arguing against? If you do, than you really should reconsider your judgement. Arguing against is nothing like disliking. Just because me and Spiderman argued against each other in this thread, and it was a pretty bada$* argument too, doesn't mean I dislike him. Just an example.
TomB, I think you should really read my quotes. I have not in anyway taken them out of context. I don't need to prove to anyone that I'm a rational person, but when a strong judgement, such as that of Arhar's, is made towards me, than I really must use my counterability.
Spiderman:
However, it seems that the militant Palestinians/Hamas are the ones who , most of the time, have been provoking the Israelis in the last 20 years or so. I don't think there's EVER been a case of a suicide Israeli.
Of course not! Why would they use suicidal tactics when they've got American-made weapons all over the place? I mean, they've got everything...it's only rational to use weapons in their case. The Palestinians use suicide because they're not supported by a strong government. Example, you'll never see an American using suicide tactics, simply because the United States offers plenty of other options. You will see Iraqis, Palestinians, Afganis, Pakis...etc..using those tactics as a hit-back because they've got nothing. Besides, when you compare the deaths on the Palestini side versus the deaths on the Isreali side, you'd quickly notice that Isreal is really the more aggressive one. It doesn't matter who started in this case, because the only people whom are getting hurt are the innocent people...if you wanna fight, fight the government, don't fight the people. Killing those people, as we all hopefully know, has not solved a thing...all it did it take out few innocent lives that had *nothing* to do with anything; just people trying to live their daily lives like you and I. I know in a war there are casualities, but..that "war" has been going on for too long now, and murdering those people, obviously, is not helping at all...
Spiderman:
THIS is the part that I remembered from a while back. Agreeing with someone whose views coincide and might validate your own isn't really being open-minded, it's just finding a "yes-man" (to use a cliche). The others are okay though.
Yes, I agree. However, I added that quote for one reason: that Arhar thanked you and Daggertooth for arguing his side. As I stated before, I never disagreed with Daggertooth, and Arhar agrees with Daggertooth, wouldn't that mean me and Arhar would agree with each other? Nope...however, him and me both agree with Daggertooth, and my agreeing with him means that I'm not mono-dimensional simply because I agreed with what Arhar agreed upon.
No offense or anything, Arhar, but if you'd like to discuss mono-dimension, than I really would like to see some examples from you...even if they're not from this thread, but concerning this issue. You've been making jokes and lamenting.
Tell me, if you strongly believe that you only care about those who are closest to you, why was this thread started then? It was started becasuse Christians far away, in Afganistan were killed. Why did you bother to start this thread? You don't know these Christians, they're not in the U.S., and they're nowhere near here. What this enables me think is that you truely care about only Christians and Americans around the globe...
Sure, you may care about everyone around the globe, but you bother enough to start a thread over Americans and Christians from around the globe, people you don't know that are not living under these skies.
...is that not the mono-dimension you're accusing me of? In return, is that not complete hypocrisy?