Chances are you are single. Don't even get me started with the "I'm single because I choose to be" thing. So find a relationship. Stay with the person longer than a year. Don't play games. Have faith. With that person use your heart, not your mind. Appreciate them. Love them. Expect highly of them. If you can do that, god bless you. I don't think you can for many reasons. 1. There's a law of life: expect, and you shall be disappointed. And this applies to simple things too, like expecting to be hugged every now and then, or even expecting to have a conversation about things that shouldn't be kept inside. 2. Drama is inevitable because people can't be honest about what they want, and in order to say what they want they don't say it, but they say a million things that you are supposed to connect and toy around with, think about, consider, until you are led to it, whatever it is they wanted to say. And when it takes few weeks to figure out the simple things, by then they would have built so much resentment against you for "not understanding" their needs. 3. You have to learn telepathy. 4. You can't have your own beliefs because it would risk their weak beliefs. So in return, you don't talk about anything stimulating or remotely intellectual just so that they don't "get offended." Hence: a boring relationship, which ultimately sucks. 5. No one has many principles. But when it comes to you, they will have so many of them, and when you need them to use their heart's judgement rather than a rational judgement, they will without hestiation use the rational judgement. Because, sure they are depraved and sinful in every other aspect of their lives, but when it comes to you, they can't help but "be logical." Which is...illogial. Hence they suck, and they'll drag you down with them to the point of sucking. 6. Chances are, you don't know what you want in life either and have to ruin someone's life in order to figure out yourself. It sucks, I know. 7. Finally, and I can't emphasize this enough: people suck. Love them, and they'll resent you for it, because they can't love you back so they feel guilty; so they hate you, but you love them anyway, which makes them really hate you, but you still love them: it sucks, I know. Give them a hand and they'll take the entire arm: you can't give them enough because they suck and like garbage dispoals they are ever-hungry for things to take in since they are always empty. (Hence, there is no such thing as "full of s**t" because I haven't met anyone who really is full of it. It seems there is no limit, actually, to how much they are "full" of it.) It's as if people are meant to be alone. Words have lost their weight; what is within is within and what's without is without; there a very narraw bridge that connects what's inside to the the outside world; music, for example, just music, without lyrics - it is a better means of communication than any book, any letter, any sincere declaration. Because no one believes what anyone else says anymore, unless its nothing serious at all. Other than that, practically speaking: you are alone; whatever it is that you are is unknown, and when you speak about yourself, trying to shed light on whatever essence you may have, your words always become poor reflections of what it is you really want to communicate. It sucks, I know. My advice? Learn how to compose and write music. Or become a scientist who will invet a device that will enable empathy and telepathy. What a wonderful world.