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Ok, so I've had this long and twisted conversation with Multani on AIM.
In Multani's opinion: the act of survival is simply and equally is the act of being selfish. The example he stated was: buying yourself something is simply being selfish, because you could have given the money you used to someone who needs it more. He basically says that if you are a human, you must be selfish -- there's no way around it.
In my opinion: the act of purely caring, and loving others with devotion is enough to prove that one is not selfish. Back to his example: if I buy myself something, and have already given all I can to others, than I'm not being selfish. This pure love must come out of the pure heart and the devotion...not caring to portray an image, or anything else. Even more, not expecting a reward in return. I say that there are humans that are a live, happy, and are not selfish.
Most of us have acted on selfish impulses, but is it true that no human can exist without being selfish?
I stated that I'm not selfish because I care equally for all, out of pure love and devotion...not because I want to be that way, not because I'm expected something, because I am like that.
He states, as a counter-statement, that I must care 100% for all in order to be not selfish. However, still, if you'd buy yourself something, you're being selfish. I stated that such an act is being selfish towards oneself, not satisfying simple survival needs. Multani insists upon his statements.
I want the CPA to get on this, and define "selfish" out of experience...
Multani's definition: being selfish is to be a human.
My definition: being selfish is to gain anything -- anything -- at the cost of others.
Multani's definition of not being selfish: not being selfish is not being human, therefore, it such definition cannot exist.
My definition of not being selfish: not being selfish is to give all you can to those who need it. To love and respect all as equals out of pure devotion...not for anything, but for being yourself: a loving and caring person. One must keep in mind though, that it's not the responsibility of one person to take the care of the life of billions of others...
What do you think?
What is selfishness?
Is Multani right, that there's no such thing as non-selfishness?
Is my definition of not being selfish right?
Multani really angered me, and this thread is the resultant.
Multani even seems to forget the simple psychology of the whole argument. He asked me if I cared for Almindhra, and of course, I said yes. He expected me to care for those whom I have not seen nor have been in contant with as much as I care for those whom I've seen in real life...otherwise, I'm being selfish. Basically, one must care for every single living individual on earth 307%, and not care about one's self at all...in order to fulfill the simple act of *not* being selfish.
Is that right?
Ok, so I've had this long and twisted conversation with Multani on AIM.
In Multani's opinion: the act of survival is simply and equally is the act of being selfish. The example he stated was: buying yourself something is simply being selfish, because you could have given the money you used to someone who needs it more. He basically says that if you are a human, you must be selfish -- there's no way around it.
In my opinion: the act of purely caring, and loving others with devotion is enough to prove that one is not selfish. Back to his example: if I buy myself something, and have already given all I can to others, than I'm not being selfish. This pure love must come out of the pure heart and the devotion...not caring to portray an image, or anything else. Even more, not expecting a reward in return. I say that there are humans that are a live, happy, and are not selfish.
Most of us have acted on selfish impulses, but is it true that no human can exist without being selfish?
I stated that I'm not selfish because I care equally for all, out of pure love and devotion...not because I want to be that way, not because I'm expected something, because I am like that.
He states, as a counter-statement, that I must care 100% for all in order to be not selfish. However, still, if you'd buy yourself something, you're being selfish. I stated that such an act is being selfish towards oneself, not satisfying simple survival needs. Multani insists upon his statements.
I want the CPA to get on this, and define "selfish" out of experience...
Multani's definition: being selfish is to be a human.
My definition: being selfish is to gain anything -- anything -- at the cost of others.
Multani's definition of not being selfish: not being selfish is not being human, therefore, it such definition cannot exist.
My definition of not being selfish: not being selfish is to give all you can to those who need it. To love and respect all as equals out of pure devotion...not for anything, but for being yourself: a loving and caring person. One must keep in mind though, that it's not the responsibility of one person to take the care of the life of billions of others...
What do you think?
What is selfishness?
Is Multani right, that there's no such thing as non-selfishness?
Is my definition of not being selfish right?
Multani really angered me, and this thread is the resultant.
Multani even seems to forget the simple psychology of the whole argument. He asked me if I cared for Almindhra, and of course, I said yes. He expected me to care for those whom I have not seen nor have been in contant with as much as I care for those whom I've seen in real life...otherwise, I'm being selfish. Basically, one must care for every single living individual on earth 307%, and not care about one's self at all...in order to fulfill the simple act of *not* being selfish.
Is that right?